Your Own Future · 7 min
Your Body is Not a Science Project: Why Your 'Final Wishes' Are Currently Meaningless
If you don't have a POLST, the default setting for your life is expensive, invasive, and loud.
The Palmelle Archive
Every Perch story, ranked by date. Plain-English reporting on the second half of life. 104 stories indexed.
Your Own Future · 7 min
If you don't have a POLST, the default setting for your life is expensive, invasive, and loud.
Your Own Future · 7 min
How to actually avoid being a burden by trading vague promises for ruthless logistics.
Your Own Future · 7 min
Why the decision to stay in your home forever requires a cold-blooded audit of your floor plan and your bank account today.
Your Own Future · 7 min
You aren't old yet, but the window to decide where you'll spend your 80s is closing faster than your favorite dive bar.
Your Own Future · 7 min
Why 'we'll just take care of each other' is the most expensive lie in retirement planning.
Your Own Future · 7 min
Watching a parent navigate the care system is a brutal education—here is how to use those scars to protect your own future.
Your Own Future · 8 min
Your physical estate might be in order, but your passwords and subscriptions are a ticking time bomb for your heirs.
Your Own Future · 7 min
How to stop your passwords from becoming a second full-time job for your grieving family.
Your Own Future · 7 min
The most dangerous thing in your house isn't the stairs—it's the six prescriptions that haven't been audited since the Obama administration.
Your Own Future · 7 min
Most people plan for their retirement accounts but ignore the high-maintenance infrastructure of their own biology.
Your Own Future · 7 min
Why building a support network at 60 is a high-stakes insurance policy for your future self.
Your Own Future · 7 min
Managing ten pills a day is a high-stakes job you never applied for—here is how to outsource it before the system fails.
Your Own Future · 7 min
The quiet house you worked thirty years to afford might be the single greatest threat to your cognitive health.
Your Own Future · 7 min
You’ve budgeted for the golf and the ocean view, but you haven't budgeted for the one thing that actually shortens lives: silence.
Your Own Future · 7 min
Managing seven different medications isn't a minor chore; it’s a high-stakes logistics operation that most people are failing.
Your Own Future · 7 min
Most people plan for the money and the golf, but forget to plan for the three-mile drive to the nearest cup of coffee.
Your Own Future · 7 min
Before you spend $80,000 on a curbless shower and a kitchen lift, consider if you’re renovating a home or building a gilded cage.
Your Own Future · 7 min
Managing your own chronic conditions is a logistics problem, not a character flaw.
Your Own Future · 7 min
A Continuing Care Retirement Community is a high-stakes financial hedge, not a house hunt.
Your Own Future · 7 min
Buying into a CCRC is less about real estate and more about pre-paying for a nursing home you hope you never need.
Your Own Future · 7 min
Deciding whether to gut the kitchen or grab the packing tape before the choice is made for you.
Your Own Future · 7 min
Why the person who loves you most is often the least qualified to be your healthcare proxy, and how to pick the right one instead.
Your Own Future · 7 min
Managing chronic conditions isn't about 'getting well'—it's about the cold, hard math of staying out of a nursing home.
Your Own Future · 7 min
A CCRC is a pre-paid care contract disguised as a luxury apartment, and the fine print matters more than the pickleball courts.